Why I’m Not Celebrating the Repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell

It may not be something that is in the minds of most of the public, but today, September 20th, has been a date on my mind for these last two months.  It is a day long hoped for, long worked for, and dreamed of by many.  It is a day when thousands of military service [...]

It Does Not Feel Like a Victory

As a civilian pastor and as a military veteran, I think I was pretty clear over the years that I thought the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy was unjust, unfair, and asked service members to violate their own honor by lying about such a core part of their identity. I thought that it made the [...]

Civilian Control and Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, Don’t Harass, Don’t Pursue

As a military chaplain, the policy known as “Don’t Ask, Don’t tell” does not apply directly to how I relate to soldiers. Any soldier can tell me anything in confidence, and I am bound by a level of confidentiality that is equivalent to the seal of the Catholic Confessional. In other words, regardless of the [...]

A Moment of Awe and a Moment of Regret

,, A few months ago, I sat in awe as I watched a young U.S. Army National Guard Infantry First Lieutenant violate Title 10 of the U.S. Code on the Rachel Maddow Show, by saying three words… “I Am Gay”. He said it knowing full well the consequences of that act, knowing that it would [...]